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Much ado about the professionalism of real estate agents.

Soap Bo

One of my favorite real estate agents and people, Daniel Rothamel, wrote recently about how he believes professionalism in real estate is becoming an overrated, tired mantra. My immediate reaction was one of disagreement – still is, in fact – but I wasn’t immediately inclined to write a dissenting opinion here.

Since then, one of my other favorite people chimed in. Dustin Luther and I share a common background in traffic engineering, so I particularly liked his analogy. And given that I have spent much of the past month beating my head against the wall as I attempt to deal with an unchecked army of cooperating agents on our many escrows, I finally felt a little group therapy coming on.

First, I’ll dispense with the disclaimer. There are throngs of really professional, exceptional agents out there. We work with them every day. This is not about them. Rather it is about the others who may, in fact, be a minority (or may not), and it is the weakest, least competent, least ethical who tend to paint the picture for an entire industry.

Daniel writes:

Clients don’t care about your professionalism. Well at least, not in the way that you think they do. Sure, they want you to be honest, truthful, respectful, dependable, etc. They want you to be all of those things. They also assume that you are going to be all of those things. They are going to assume, and then demand, a certain level of competence. Your responsibility is simply to meet and (hopefully) exceed their expectations.

Here’s the problem. Typically, each transaction has two agents involved. The customer “experience” is defined not only by how I perform, but by how the other side conducts their business. And when the other side generally makes a mess of things, it becomes personal. It is hard to exceed expectations when you spend thirty high-profile days on your client’s behalf playing damage control. Too often, we become guilty by association.

I popped in at a new home project on behalf of a client this week. The door was locked, despite the big sign showing the hours of operation that suggested it shouldn’t be. As I knocked, making eye contact with the agent on duty, she commenced first ignoring me then frantically waving me off. Finally, she relented and opened the door a crack, enough to tell me that she was going home sick. Can I just register my clients since I am here? No. Can you tell me when the next phase release is? Come back another time, she barked.

The point here is that I didn’t just leave with a poor impression of this agent who was apparently feeling under the weather; I left with a very negative impression of the home builder. They might be the best builder in the lower 48, but one agent’s actions reflect on the many.

Dustin wrote of a “real estate industry where the barriers to entry are so much lower and the quality reviews so much more infrequent.” We know about the ridiculously simple licensing requirements, and we know that those requirements won’t change any time soon, if ever. It’s the last part of his remark that nails it. Who’s in charge?

In the original Superman movie, as Superman is giving Lois Lane the grand aerial tour, he assures her, “I’ve got you.” At this point, she asks, “But who’s got you?” And that is so much of the problem with our industry. Millions of independent contractors are flying solo, too often without any oversight.

I have seen more ethical breaches and mismanaged transactions this past month than I can count (and I can count pretty high). The duplication, waste and a general lack of understanding of the basic contracts on the part of cooperating brokers I have seen defy logic. So, they did the sexy part well  — they “sold” the house – to which their brokers likely responded with the big office meeting high fives. Only, there is a bunch of stuff that came before and comes next that often gets relegated to the B list of importance.

And it is not enough for the agent who has their act together to just say, “I’m different – So there!” because, while your client may be able to make the distinction between your performance and the cooperating agent’s, they may just as easily choose not to. It’s the “experience” that they will most often remember, and we all suffer from one agent’s bad outing.

The right answer has less to do with lax licensing requirements and a whole lot more to do with agent oversight. This challenge is no less daunting however. Big brokerages are confronted with large and arguably unmanageable numbers of agents, and where brokers of any size are concerned, there is no way to ensure they are each minding their shops.

This is not to say the raising the roof on professionalism is a worthless undertaking. On the contrary, the only way to improve public perception as well as the client experience is to continue to be vocal in demanding more, in demanding better.

Our real estate world has been turned on its head over the past decade, and mostly for the better I think. The customer is learning that there are differences and that he does have choices. With transparency comes some accountability, and it is harder for stupid “agent tricks” to go unnoticed. I will lay odds that future changes will be coming more rapidly yet. “Status quo” mentality has put our industry miles behind where technology is concerned, and this same everything-is-ducky approach will do us no favors if we want a role in the home buying and selling process in the future.

As Dustin put it, “I would argue that the real danger is consumers, especially consumers who don’t already have a trusted advisor, will be more than happy to seek out and use alternative business models that differentiate themselves only on price.”

Yeah, that.

Kris Berg

Kris Berg is Co-Owner and Designated Broker of San Diego Castles Realty. She has been serving San Diego buyers and sellers since 1997.

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  • http://lasvegasrealestatenewsanddiscussion.blogspot.com/ Bob Feeley

    I’ve always been in awe of sellers so willing to hand there (in most cases) largest asset to someone who has no level of experience in the industry. At the same time they’ll spend a tremendous amount of effort looking for an investment adviser for a limited amount of money.

    I go into each transaction with the same thought: Theoretically, I’m going to handle both sides of this transaction. If the other agent does his/her job; it’s a win for me. If not, I’m no worse off because I really didn’t expect much anyway. I’m not trying to be negative. I’m just trying to deal with it realistically to prevent frustration.

  • http://sandiegohomeblog.com Kris Berg

    Wow – That’s an interesting way of approaching it, Bob. Sadly, it is a pretty smart approach. Sometimes, though (especially where coordinating with the lender is concerned, in situations where we are representing the seller), our hands are tied. We ultimately have to rely to some extent on the other guy.

  • http://www.dougfrancis.com Doug Francis

    In December I worked with an agent who spoke to me like “he was handling both sides of the transaction”, and I feel that it really caused his client a lot of heartache and tears. He did not trust my client nor me… luckily I knew the settlement attorney who vouched for me as a long-time professional. Yes, we closed on time.

    The key to building trust in a working relationship is frequent communication, and that skill has not been a part of any training class that I have ever taken in my 19 years in the real estate business.

  • http://sandiegohomeblog.com Kris Berg

    Touche! An even better point, Doug.

  • http://sandiegohomeblog.com/2010/02/13/the-agent-in-the-mirror/ The agent in the mirror. — The San Diego Home Blog

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  • http://lasvegasrealestatenewsanddiscussion.blogspot.com/ Bob Feeley

    I agree with Doug’s point completely. Frequent communication is the key.

    When entering into a new transaction you know very quickly if the other agent is competent and knowledgeable. If that’s the case; everyone can concentrate on their side of the transaction, checking in occasionally, and feel comfortable knowing everything is being done to get the transaction to the closing table. If, however, you immediately realize the other agent lacks business acumen, communication skills, complemented by ignorance or apathy; I feel a great disservice will be done to all parties involved if the situation isn’t “controlled”. This “control” provided in a positive, respectful, as well as professional manner through guidance, mentoring, and communicative follow-ups. My experience has been that this not only provides for a closed transaction; but a happy agent on the other side, who is not only paid, but learned something in a productive fashion on the way.

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  • http://raillife.com/blog Nick Bastian

    GREAT list of blogs and topics!
    Just curious… How did the #rett discussion get left off of this list?

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    This comment was originally posted on Real Estate Investing For Real | A BiggerPockets Investment Property Blog

  • http://www.deansellsaz.com/ Dean Ouellette

    Nick, the RETT discussion deserved to be included… but I have a policy I never include any of my own posts, and try not to include any that mention my name.
    Dean Ouellette´s last blog ..Do I need to worry about how my short sale shows?

    This comment was originally posted on Real Estate Investing For Real | A BiggerPockets Investment Property Blog

  • http://lakemartinvoice.com John Coley

    Personally, as an ardent capitalist, the low barrier to entry part does not bother me. The more competition, the merrier. Unfortunately that does make it hard to stand out as an “honest, smart, ethical, hard working realtor.” I have never seen any realtor ad that touts how evil, dumb, and lazy the agent is. I guess it is up to us to communicate that through thought (blogs like this) and action (testimonials, etc?).

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  • http://www.sandiegohomeblog.com Steve Berg

    John – I’m kind of with you on the capitalist thing, except to the extent that it involves my own assets and/or well being. I don’t even mind the competion. But who would purposely want there to be such a low barrier to entry for a profession where the practitioners are supposedly entrusted and depended upon for such an important and valuable asset?

  • http://lakemartinvoice.com John Coley

    @Steve, I hear you, but I can also think of a lot of professions that require a college degree that don’t get a proportionate increase of “professionalism” or work ethic out of the people. I agree it’s a tough issue to consider.

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